In the world of reality TV, where tempers flare and alliances shift faster than the latest social media trend, one name consistently stands out: Christina Devraj from The Mommy Club: Sugar & Spice. Known for her fiery personality and headline-grabbing confrontations, Christina has become the show’s undeniable drama magnet. But is there more to her than meets the eye? Behind the edited scenes, the dramatic outbursts, and the larger-than-life persona, lies a woman with her own story to tell—a story of resilience, real emotions, and the reality of living under the constant gaze of the camera.
In this exclusive Q&A interview, Christina opens up about what it’s like to be the most talked-about star of The Mommy Club: Sugar & Spice. She spills the tea on her most controversial moments, addresses the misconceptions, and reveals the surprising truths behind the on-screen chaos that viewers love to hate. Get ready to see Christina in a whole new light as she takes us beyond the drama and into her real world.
FEMME: When the cameras aren’t rolling, who is Christina at her core? How different is she from the ‘Drama Queen’ persona viewers see on the show?
Christina: I am very laid-back and a doting mommy at my core. I enjoy a quiet life, just relaxing, going on hikes and being there for my family. I believe in Jesus, and he restores my heart and soul everyday. I believe prayer and walking in faith is what keeps me balanced. I loved bringing the spice and drama to the show. That’s exactly the reason I am on the show. I focus on my business and charity work.
F: What’s been the most challenging part of putting your life on display for the world to see? Any moments you wish had stayed private?
C: I don’t think I put much of myself on the show, what you see is one dimensional. What was most challenging is getting used to the way the show goes and dealing with storylines and being everyone’s main storyline.
F: How do you balance being a mom and a reality TV star, especially when the drama of the show spills over into your personal life?
C: Being a mom you have so much to do and think of on an everyday basis. I don’t think drama on a show spills into your real life. My friends and family have been around for the entire filming process, so they know what is like.
F: What’s one thing about yourself that you think would surprise people? Something that hasn’t made it to the screen yet.
C: I am a business owner and have always involved in community and NPO work, I also come from a political background. My grandfather and father working in parliament, we have a deep history in the fight for democracy.
F: Do you ever have moments where you think, ‘This isn’t worth it’? What keeps you going when things get tough on and off camera?
C: Definitely, I think as the story unfolds it becomes more apparent that there was a team effort to try to get to me or use me as their storyline. It got tiring after a while. It’s my family and friends that keep me grounded, support and love me. Of course, there is my daughter who keeps me smiling from ear to ear just because she’s such a bubbly little girl.
F: How do you feel about being labeled the ‘drama’ of the show? Is that a fair portrayal, or is there more to you that viewers don’t see?
C: I definitely do bring drama and spice to the show, that was deliberate. I think it’s fair to go off what you see on the screen. There is definitely a lot more to me, but I didn’t show much of myself on the show. I was really just there to create exciting storylines.
F: Has being on the show changed your real-life relationships? Have you lost friends, or has it strengthened some bonds?
C: I’ve definitely strengthened bonds by being on the show, my friends have been absolutely supportive and enjoy the show. We laugh about some episodes and they’re proud of my bravery in certain situations on the show and they’re always by my side.
F: Do you think reality TV accurately represents your personality, or is it more about the narrative the producers want to push?
C: I don’t think that the show represents me, it’s a show and there was need for continuity into the next episode and people to tune in. It was dramatic and bizarre when it needed to be, so that the show trends and is successful.
F: What’s been your most explosive moment on the show, and how did you feel about it after watching it back?
C: Definitely the pencil club scene, I felt that it was over played on screen and dragged out. I did say what I felt in the moment.
F: Do you ever regret any of the confrontations or drama you’ve been involved in, or do you stand by everything that’s aired?
C: I think that it made for a good show. Every episode and drama trends, and the show makes it to number 1. The show’s success is excellent.
F: Have you ever felt misunderstood or misrepresented by the show’s editing? Can you give an example?
C: Definitely but I knew that was going to happen. Not everything is shown, and I also wasn’t present for much of the show because I was in hospital. Some scenes we filmed for a very long time and only a little piece shows up on the final, or bits and pieces from here and there.
F: Have there been moments where you felt pressured to play up certain storylines or conflicts for the sake of entertainment?
C: Definitely.
F: What’s it like watching yourself back on TV? Do you ever cringe or feel proud of certain moments?
C: I think I’m proud of the way I handled certain situations that were meant to crush me. The show was cutthroat, cameras were on you and sometimes I wouldn’t understand what’s happening because a lot was cut from the scenes.
F: What’s your response to fans who love you for the drama versus those who criticise you for it? How do you handle the negativity?
C: I think I have experienced real love and support from fans. I think criticism comes with the limelight and how people respond to the show is perfectly okay, everyone should be allowed to voice what they feel about the show. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced real life negativity, it’s always been uplifting and positive. I don’t take negativity on the internet to heart.
F: How do you manage your mental health when dealing with public scrutiny, especially around dramatic moments on the show?
C: I have had a lot of love and messages from fans that are very uplifting and empowering. I think the dramatic moments make the show successful because it is reality TV. You can’t let everything get to you or affect you, you have to pray about everything and keep a balanced lifestyle. Eat well, pray, exercise and always have a strong support system around you.
F: Has there ever been a moment where you felt manipulated or set up by producers to create drama? Spill the tea, is it scripted or what we view is real?
C: Don’t think I can answer that! But it’s all for the success of the show.
F: The picnic scene – it made viewers go wild. What happened beyond what we saw? Spill.
C: At the scene, I just avoided the gossip topics because I felt that if I wanted to address those things I should do it with the person it involves and not for it to be carried through a telephone line and used for conversation and storyline. I would rather speak to those people directly. It was there to be entertaining and dramatic, and the picnic scene was definitely a successful episode, and it trended.
F: You misplaced your lipstick and bank card, was that for real or just a plot to eavesdrop on a conversation your cast member was engaging in over a call?
C: A plot twist, I did not actually misplace anything.
F: In a very recent episode, you mentioned that you disliked a certain cast member. Have your feelings changed since? How is your relationship with her now?
C: Definitely. Things are very dramatic on the show.
F: What’s one piece of advice you’d give to someone about to join a reality TV show, especially regarding how to handle drama?
C: I think the best advice would be to stay true to your beliefs and not let anyone bully you on reality TV no matter how hard they try. Gossiping and backbiting is real on the show, and you have to be strong through it even when you’re singled out.
F: What’s next for you? Do you see yourself continuing in reality TV, or do you have other plans on the horizon?
C: I would definitely continue in reality TV, acting or anything in showbiz if the timing is right. I also will be continuing to drive my businesses and continue my career in law now that Jordan is older.
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F: What’s been the most challenging part of putting your life on display for the world to see? Any moments you wish had stayed private?